I haven’t been active on here because I feel like a terrible owner, I had to get admitted to hospital for my mental health issues and I had no one to look after my baby Hope.. so my carers from the care home I was at had to re home her.. I don’t even know where she went all I could do was stress that she needed good care, and sent them videos of what good care looked like
I haven’t been active on here because I feel like a terrible owner, I had to get admitted to hospital for my mental health issues and I had no one to look after my baby Hope.. so my carers from the care home I was at had to re home her.. I don’t even know where she went all I could do was stress that she needed good care, and sent them videos of what good care looked like
You don't need to feel bad for taking care of yourself. You can't help others if you can't help yourself. You were ill and needed help and you did a brave and selflessly thing by letting her go to another home. What would have happened if she had stayed home while you were away? She would not have gotten the care she needed. You did what you could and I know she appreciated having an owner who cared and still does care about her. I know I would feel bad having to give up a hammy too but you should give yourself some grace, the same grace you would give someone else in your position. Just because you had a bad choice doesn't mean you are a bad person. I'm praying for your peace. God bless.
Another reason I made this forum is so we could help each other. Donating supplies and rehoming to people who can take care of a hammies and care about their welfare. We can help each other and I don't want us to judge each other on things outside our control. I took in a hamster from someone on the old Hamster Hideout forum. He had to go overseas and I took her (Cordelia) in. I was happy that I could help him and her. Don't ever feel bad about reaching out for help.